So you get all washed and smelling good and well rested.Looked at a few positions in your bedside Kama Sudra Manuel, stretched a few limbs and waited for your mate to make their grand entrance and climb into your waiting arms. The door swings open and a giggling, screaming, child comes running through the door to announce daddy said "I can sleep with you tonight". All you can do is lay there in total disbelieve.
It took a year and some to get this little person out of your bed, at his request and now he lets the intruder back in. What is a women to think.
The Women I had this conversation with was absolutely dumb founded. This scenario continued for months and she finally got feed up and ask her husband what was going on. He told her she had lost too much weight and it was like making love to a bone. Every time they would try new positions he could feel her pelvic bones and felt like he would break it. She did not know what to say or do. Gain weight to get her sex life back or keep the weight off to feel better and be healthier.
Wow for once in my life time I was almost speechless, but you know that did not last long. I asked did she talk with her husband about the weight loss plan. She indicated he should have known that it was not good for her to be over weight. She just started working out and eating better. She continued to feed him what they always ate.
Once again I say communication is they key we should never take for granted what another person is thinking even if you do eat, sleep and live in the same house. No quick fixes for marital discord, but one sure way not to have allot of it is communication.
Love Ya See Ya Bye
Twilla
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