If you are numbered among the few couples that have stood the test of time, anger, sorrow, disappointment, regret, sickness, children, in-laws, the list is endless. You have made it to what seems in this day and age a elite club.
Congratulations and keep up the self sacrificing, total commitment, unmovable, till death do us part love for one another.
I recently had a talk with a therapist who insisted that I did not understand what my husband of 28+years was saying to me. That there was a undercurrent of him just keeping the peace. Sure I understand that has played a roll in the past on both our parts we would not have made it this far without it. But you must know that if you talk to a therapist do not let them interject in your relationship what is not there for that particular session. I think having someone to talk to is great whether its a therapist,councilor or clergy. I also know people will sometimes speak to you from a point of reference gained either from their experience or someone else.
I know some might say that's why you should go to a seasoned person, but not everyone can afford the sometimes overwhelming price tag. Lets face health coverage is not so forth coming in this arena.
So keep up the good work and continue to endure. When you are enjoying the fruits of all your labor of LOVE you will be able to share with those just starting out or those pressing through how rewarding it truly is.
Love Ya See Ya Bye
Twilla
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